Get clarity for
better dating results
Dating
insight
Survey
You’ll get immediate clarity about how you date - free. From there, we offer guided options to help you move forward, if and when you’re ready.
About the survey
The Dating Insight Survey gives you a clearer picture of how you approach dating right now – your pace, priorities, and the environments where you’re most likely to feel comfortable and confident.
You’ll receive immediate clarity from the results, at no cost and with no obligation to purchase anything. For many people, this insight alone is enough to change how they show up. And if you want to go further, this survey is the starting point of a broader set of tools designed to support you along the way.
The Dating Insight Survey Will
Turn confusion into direction – Your responses become the foundation for personalized tools and resources designed to help you date with intention, not hope alone. No generic advice. No starting over from scratch.
Stop Guessing What Type of Dating Works for You – Immediately identify your Dating Style so you can see how you actually show up in dating.
Feel seen in the process – If you choose to receive notifications, we use your style to recommend events and experiences that fit how you connect - so you’re not forcing yourself into spaces that were never designed for you.
Help shape what comes next - Your anonymous data helps us prioritize future services based on what singles actually need, not what dating culture tells you to want. Your information is confidential and used only by our team.
Optional Next Steps
You don’t have to do anything more. But.... if you’re tired of staying in the same place, these options help you go further - on your terms.
Hold onto clarity instead of losing it - The Dating Style Snapshot gives you a clear, simple summary of how you date - something you can come back to anytime when doubt creeps in.
Understand the pattern, not just the label. - The Dating Insight Report goes deeper, translating your responses into guidance, blind spots, and practical next moves so you’re not left wondering “now what?”
Get perspective without pressure – Strategy Sessions offer space to talk things through - with others or one-on-one - when you want support making sense of what you’re seeing.
Turn insight into real-life change. - Additional tools and resources build on your results, helping you apply what you’ve learned instead of letting it fade after one good read.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the survey free?
Yes. The Dating Insight Survey is free to complete. You’ll receive your Dating Style and initial results immediately.
Do I have to purchase anything after taking the survey?
No. Purchasing additional resources is completely optional. You can simply review your results and stop there.
How long does the survey take?
Most people complete the survey in about 10 minutes.
What happens after I submit the survey?
You’ll be shown your Dating Style and a brief explanation of what it reflects. From there, you can explore optional next steps, including personalized services if you’d like.
How are my responses used?
Your responses are used to generate your results and help tailor any recommendations you choose to view. They also help us improve how we design events and resources. Your responses are kept confidential and only used by our team.
Will I see a score or be compared to others?
No. We don’t display scores or comparisons. Your results are based on patterns in your responses, not a ranking.
Is this matchmaking?
No. The survey helps clarify your dating style and preferences. Matchmaking is a separate service that you may choose to explore later. This is also different from the at-event matching profile that focuses on finding compatibility with other participants vs. identifying your dating preferences.
Will my information be shared or sold?
No. Your responses stay within Smitten Singles and are used only to support your experience and enhance programs and services directly offered by us.
Can I retake the survey later?
Yes. Dating styles can shift over time, and you’re welcome to retake the survey if your situation changes.